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“If you're not practicing, somebody else is, somewhere, and he'll be ready to take your job,”

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As stated by Brooks Robinson, “If you're not practicing, somebody else is, somewhere, and he'll be ready to take your job". The successful people always portray that they are relaxed and by this way they eliminate the competitors as average performers are always relaxed assuming that no one is serious. But actually the attitude of laborious individuals are as similar as a duck swimming in water, at   surface the duck appears relaxed, however it paddles in continuity beneath the water. Life is full of competitors and hence one relaxed attempt of an individual provides an opportunity to the hard working individual. Survival of the fittest is applicable not in terms of physical fitness but also on mental fitness. In the world of Information technology, the proper integration of information and utilization of the same for effective decision making gives an individual competitive advantage on others. The moment an individual has an encounter with a complex problem he is ready t...

Nature, time & patience- the three great physicians

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Human beings are generally hurt as they are mortal. But the three physicians are God’s gift them. An injury can be physical or mental but both are very painful.   If an individual met with an accident then at that time he will be in intense pain as because he is hurt grievously. As the nature will heal his wound along with the time then he will be slowly relieved from the pain. This procedure will remain incomplete till the person will not have patience. When a person has to eat cooked food, which is one of the easiest tasks if he is impatient then he will not enjoy the taste of the food nor it will be digested properly. Thus patience is essential requirement with nature and time. Time heals the external wound but whatever loss an individual had incurred he can overcome due to patience. In today’s world the individuals are impatient and their healing process which is a cake walk in turn becomes a herculean task. They look for short term quick fixes in every situation and this compr...

Lean compromise is better than fat Lawsuit

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Individuals are always engrossed in satisfying their ego that no one is ready to accept that they have committed a mistake. Rather everyone is ready to blame other person for any kind of problem. In 21 st century the situation is intense as sense of responsibility is rarely found. So far the matter of litigation is concerned if we will notice then the trend forecast that important issues are barely filed however unnecessary matters are ample in number. The only one reason is that no one is ready to compromise and hence the matter becomes intense. Mountain out of a mole is a very common phenomenon as the egotists are numerous. The negativity of each other’s aura is causing ill effect on each other and a small shake of friendship is not possible amongst people rather a pending, unending litigation is always welcome. This all begins from our home as any elder is reluctant to admit his mistake in front of the younger and also the younger is not ready to reach the elder for compromise as t...

“NO GREAT SHAKES”

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The students in our Indian Education system are burning their night candles to attain degree but it is considered as no great shakes as the application of theory is missing. If we give a situation to them to extrapolate they are facing failure. The major cause for it is that lack of interest in attaining knowledge as the rat race is all about to get a degree. I remember when I used to learn cooking from my mother and then I was in a habit to note every single step of preparing any dish. Many times she cross questioned me about the recipe and my answers were not out of my intelligence but it was all related to the written notes. Her mockery was pinching as she had several times expressed that learn from bottom of your heart, and then you will not require any diary. Then I started taking interest in the vegetable type and how the different their tastes were with different spices and finally I started with my own recipe and cooking style without referring her notes. Thanks to mother but I...

WILL POWER

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"The man who goes farthest is generally the one who is willing to do and dare. The sure-thing boat never gets far from shore."Dale Carnegie But to go farthest means to have strong will power. Human beings are always prone to succumb to circumstances and hence it clearly signifies that we are fragile with weak will power. Today I will make up my mind and second moment I will give up that thought as stumbling block will appear as hurdles. Now the time has come where we should make the stumbling blocks into stepping stone. It is very easy the focus should be shifted from the cribbing about the problem to finding solution of the problem. Repeatedly if we do this then automatically an individual will attain a strong will power. To become an imperturbable person is a herculean task but it can easily achieve if we practice perseverance. For an illustration if we do not want to study a subject then we should not give up and stick to it for half an hour every day. Automatically the ou...

Happiness Index

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Happiness is key to success. If we are happy then automatically scorching Sun also does not cause any effect. Due to happiness our mind set remains positive. The people who travel in local trains where we can easily notice the height of animosity still there are individuals who smile and enjoy their journey. This power arises due to their imperturbable behaviour. In the beginning one has to fake it but then the person will reap it as an habit. Please smile as it costs nothing but the beauty enhances manifold. The main point of staying happy is to stay content within ourselves. Self pity and self denial are the major threat to disrupt peace and happiness of an individual. We should promise every day thay whatever happens, but we will keep smiling.....

Examination

We all feel that the examination should not be conducted. As studying prior to exams become very hectic. I always noticed an important thing about exam is that writing for three hours is not difficult. However the number of hours which we have to study rigorously for that exam is the rough phase. Hence if we show perseverance in this phase then audacity will reap benefits in near future. Persistence sounds very difficult but it is all emotional intelligence. So the finest trick will be to follow, Jim Rohn i.e. as he said “Let others lead small lives, but not you. Let others argue over small things, but not you. Let others cry over small hurts, but not you. Let others leave their future in someone else's hands, but not you.” So let not the future of an examinee should be decided by the examiner but of course the examinee should create his own destiny by delivering a masterpiece while answering the questions. We should focus on area of performance and not area of concern. Let us stu...